Dressed up in different flavours of life, sipping on our apple martinis, sharing some juicy gossips

Wednesday, 24 August 2011

Seven things I want to say….....

….to seven different people…
1)You are the bestesstttt person in the whole world and I love u the mostttt. It is a not a surprise, because you love me the mossttt as well. I know that you will be there for me, no matter what. You make all my wishes come true. I wish I could do something for you. But I really don’t know what. You just want me to be happy, that is all you care about. I know I have always taken you for granted. But from now onwards, Iam going to cherish you and be grateful to God for giving you.
2)I don’t know why I can’t love you the way I should love you, or the way I want to. Something stops me from loving you with an open heart. I know you deserve more than that. Iam really sorry that I never took the time to know you or what you want. Iam sorry that I don’t love you as much as I should be loving you. Certain things you do definitely irk me. But you also do a lotta things for me. Thank you so much for that. And I do love you.
3)You have always been there for me, especially when I was emotionally down. I poured my heart out to you over and over again. And you listened to me with patience. I could share my happiness and sorrows with you. Wish you did the same with me. I wish you opened up to me as well. I wish I could be like you – down to earth, intelligent and focussed.
4)I don’t get you. Sometimes I feel that you are nice and lovable, at other times you are totally insensitive. I cannot understand how such contrasting qualities can inhabit inside the same individual. But Iam always grateful to you because you came into my life at a time when I was shattered. You helped me put myself back into a whole person again. You taught me to laugh again. I enjoyed being with you and spent some beauuutiful moments in your company. There are days I miss you like crazy. 

5)I totally adore you. I look up to you. I wish we could be bessstttttt friends. Your sense of humour, easy-going nature, love for all good things in life, your attitude and the genuine goodness that you have in you – I totally adore you for that. I love the way you talk, the way you write and the way you shut up when there is no need to talk. You maintain that dignity about yourself.
6)I hateeee you for all the pain you gave me. And I can never forgive you.
7)You have an awesome life. And you have really influenced me to a great extent. I have always felt that need to prove myself to you. That Iam not lesser than you in anyway. But now Iam kinda glad that we don’t have to see each other often. Because, every time we meet, our insecurities crop up.

Friday, 19 August 2011

Responses to "Its in my stars"

Hey Energy Fountain

I was so hooked to Linda Goodman while in college and used to believe each word of it...but now I cannot be so sure of all of it..I hardly read horoscope now ..Moreover I believe in 'what you sow, you reap policy...So there is no room for tarot cards, horoscope, vaastu etc...

She Pebble

Even I enjoy reading my star forecast…  when some days it makes no sense to me… other days I wonder how accurately things have been defined…. Anyways it is just a fun factor for me…

The chick running behind a rubber ball sounds cute.. she must have mistaken the ball to be the person who gave her life… even when we as babies opened our eyes, we just trusted the hands that held us…don’t you think we depend on our parents for quite some time…in fact we need them in one way or another as long as they are there… this being the case,  I feel  awful when I read of new born infants left on streets just because their parents could not take up their responsibility…

 .....Yours Agile Serenity

(busy wondering who should these helpless infants blame??? their Parents or their Stars????

Iam a tad bit confused about astrology. Its unfair that we give all the credit to the stars. But I do feel that there is an element of truth in that. Something that I totally loved reading is the Linda Goodman's star signs. Iam a Libran and most of the written works on astrology say that librans are indecisive, argumentative, romantic and lazy!!! And thats soooo true about me :)  So I tend to believe in astrology.

Lying on the couch and counting the stars
yours lazily
couch potato
Hey gals

I knew all of you must have turned the pages of Linda Goodman at some point of time...She pebble i totally agree with you on "what you sow, is what you reap"...but there is definitely some truth in astrology, though one can not bank on it and move accordingly in life.

 And weekly predictions might be accurate for some and not  for others because the astrologer gives a rough sketch for a zodiac sign, while all of us are born at different times, so the planetary pattern varies accordingly for each of us.

And Agile I really feel sorry for those babies who are left to fend for themselves, whom should they blame is a million dollar question, their parents, society or their stars? why do not you write about it in your next post.

Energy Fountain

Tuesday, 9 August 2011

It's in My Stars

Do I believe in astrology?? the answer is both yes and no, because I believe that it works for some, but it might not work for others. Because the person doing predictions is a human being and to err is human. But I definitely find it interesting to read the column “Your stars” which most of the newspapers carry and there have been incidences when these predictions have come true for me.

One day when I opened the website of one such newspaper to read “Your stars”…I heard a person speaking, I was little confused regarding the origin of the voice, then I realized I had happened to click on an astrology radio link. Out of curiosity I hanged on to it for few seconds, the person speaking had a commanding voice and explained things emphatically. He was explaining how planets influence a person the way he or she is.

He said if someone is born at night, then the first impression a child gets is darkness all around and laziness in people around, it goes a long way in how the child perceives the world to be. Then based on the various planetary positions, he gets exposed to different amount of magnetic waves which decides the weakness and strength of that person. He said it is the exposure at a particular time that decides how a person turns out to be.

Then he gave an example of a study done by scientists to see the bonding between a new born baby and mother. In most of the animals as soon as a baby is born they start walking or running, because it is important for their survival and they follow the mother. Now scientists were curious whether the new born is running after the mother or the exposure? So what they did was when a chick was hatching, they took the mother away and placed a rubber ball, when the chick came out of the egg it started following wherever the ball was moved, it showed the same affection towards the ball which chicks show towards their mother. This experiment was repeated with various substitutes for the mother and the result was same every time. It showed that the new born tries to get the maximum out of the exposure it gets.

Moral of the story: If you don’t like certain things about yourself, then you can always blame the stars. After all the time at which you made an entry into the world and the kind of exposure you received as a new born were not decided by you!!!